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Pleasure Bound is about interesting people enjoying D/s, adult oriented parties in a comfortable, pleasant, upscale, and non-judgmental atmosphere. Because of the adult nature of the parties and activities, respect, discretion, and etiquette are fundamental to it’s continued success.

You must be 18 years old or older to attend Pleasure Bound parties. Photo ID may be required at the door. Pleasure Bound parties are private, by invitation parties. To be placed on the invitation list you must either attend a munch, or otherwise meet with someone on the PB board. This is to protect, and insure the confidentiality of our friends and guests. While PB munches are held at a public establishment and open to anyone, PB parties are generally held at one of several residences of like minded people who generously allowing us it’s use. Remember, the party space is also someone’s home, treat the facility with respect, deposit trash in proper receptacles, be considerate of furniture etc.

If you have any questions or concerns during a party, speak to the designated Dungeon Monitor (DM) or to one of the hosts (PB Board). The hosts have final say on all matters. If there is a problem or a guest becomes ill or incapacitated, notify one of the hosts immediately. No illegal drugs may be brought to or used at PB parties. Do not engage in any illegal activities at parties. No alcoholic beverages may be brought to PB parties by guests. Notify a DM if you use prescription medication that may influence your judgment or otherwise impair you. If you have a medical condition that could affect you in play please inform the DM or a host.

PB encourages the use of safewords in play. Irregardless of any safewords negotiated between play partners, the “Universal” party safeword is "RED." If you call out "RED," a DM will come to your aid. If you are observing a scene and hear “RED”, immediately notify the DM or hosts. Use this word as a call for assistance from outside your scene. Do not misuse or abuse this call for help. Though "RED" is the designated safeword, please remember, "NO" means "NO."

Remember, respect is a cornerstone of the D/s lifestyle, do not touch another person or their property without permission. This is not intended as a restriction on handshakes, hugs, etc between friends, but as a caution and reminder that D/s etiquette is generally more formal than casual in nature. Respect those participating in play. Never attempt to join scenes in progress without prior permission. Keep conversations in the play areas to a minimum, and quiet and non-intrusive on the play. Social areas are always available for “socializing”. Respect those waiting to play. Play equipment and space is usually limited so scenes lasting over an hour are discouraged. If you need more time for the scene you are planning, please talk to a DM or the Host first. Check with the DM or Host before beginning any loud, disruptive, or unusually messy scenes or play involving fire, blood, wax, or suspension. For sanitary reasons, scat, “watersports” and Roman Showers are not allowed during PB parties. Play partners are not to be left alone during a scene. If you must step away from your partner during a scene, designate someone to watch and protect your partner in your absence. Safer sex and cleaning supplies are available in the Dungeon.

Respect the play area; clean up after your scene. Be sure not to contaminate other areas of the party with body fluids or other residue from your play. Smoking is allowed only outside. Generally, no nudity or play is allowed outside the house. Exceptions such as pool or spa use or “outside scenes” may be possible at some venues. Check with the hosts if in doubt. Please keep your voices down so as not to disturb the neighbors.

Pleasure Bound parties and all events hosted by Pleasure Bound are private and confidential. By attending, you are agreeing to refrain from divulging the identities and activities of any of the partygoers to any non-attendees. Party attendance is a privilege, not a right. If you RSVP for a party then cannot attend, have the courtesy to cancel your reservation by midnight of the day prior to the party. PB parties frequently have more RSVPs than space, so waiting lists are not uncommon. As food is purchased and prepared based on RSVPs, and people may be on a waiting list to fill a spot you can’t make, failure to cancel in a timely manner could result in PB requiring an additional $5 donation at the next party you attend. Repeatedly not canceling in a timely manner, or habitually canceling at the last minute, may result in the lose of the privilege of attending. PB reserves the right to refuse entrance to anyone or ask anyone to leave if, in the judgment of the hosts or a DM, they appear intoxicated, potentially harmful to themselves or others, ignore these rules, or engage in unsafe, non-consensual, or disruptive behavior.

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